section a: info
our name is vinny / vineyard / vine! jan 10th is our birthday, making us nineteen as of (6/9/2025) he/him she/her are our collective pronouns, they/them also sometimes okay but prefered sparingly / only when referring to multiple of us. we prefer to be addressed individually! almost all of us are trans, so we identify as that collectively, as well as bigender and genderqueer. we are on the aromantic spectrum, as well as have many aro, ace, and aroace members. most of us use gay as umbrella label / or just overall *queer*. we are physically disabled and autistic. some of us have more struggles and skills regression than others. some of us deal with our disorders more than others.
we are ♦️ queer-platonically partnered as a whole to emma. arcades ily ... / we are in an romantic ENM relationship! he's not nearly as online as i am, but i'm still mentioning him here.
we use pretty much all terms for system members/sysmates/headmates/alters/parts/"the voices" etc - if you need to use one for us, just mimic whatever we've used in that conversation or most recently. preference can vary, and if we don't like any way we're referred to *in general* - we'll let you know. we switch often between i/we for ourselves.
section b: frequent fronters
click the blinkie with the alter you're looking for's name and it will take you to their page (wip)
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